On Saturday there was the funeral of Ruth Baker, a well known lady in the Church in Abingdon (CiA). She had often represented the Society of Friends, or ‘Quakers’ at CiA events, and on numerous charities.

The South Oxfordshire Crematorium had room for about 100 people but that was not enough as people were crammed into the lobby. The Quaker style funeral began with a short introduction, to explain that there would be times of quiet, and that anybody who felt moved could stand up and say some words.

A lot of people did contribute. Her grand children told how she always gave them her full attention, listened to whatever their concerns were, and was always there with wise words. Other people told how she brought people together in lots of ways and was always so welcoming and loving. What I did not realise was that she was a Doctor, having gained a PhD at Oxford – that was after getting a 1st class degree in the infant science of Biochemistry at Oxford. At that time however, she decided to dedicate her time to bringing up her children, rather than following a scientific career.

The funeral details can be seen at the Tonks Brothers website. There is also a link to make donations to Ruth’s charities, and a link to the webcast for anybody who could not get to the funeral – and wish they had, or could not hear from the lobby.

The picture is from this blog in 2007. Anybody who wants to find out more abut the Quakers and their unique style of silent worship can join a small group on Thursday evening at St Ethelwold’s House.

Thanks to Steve for this

Stanislaw, aka, Rocky was a well known and much respected Polish man who took up residency in Abingdon after the war. It was rumoured that he fought in the Free Polish Air Force during the war and a recent obituary article in the Mail https://m.facebook.com/307SquadronProject/posts/833636720105369 confirms those rumours. The article is about a war hero living in Swansea and who died shortly after his 100th birthday.

In the 60’/70s he owned and ran Top Taxis in Abingdon, and lived on the Marcham Road. Steve says he was an amazing full of life character who lightened every room he entered! I hope the Mail does not mind me borrowing their pictures. If anybody has any of Stanislaw in his Abingdon days, or even Top Taxis, please send to backstreet60@gmail.com.

The funeral service of Janet Morgan was held at St Helen’s Church, Abingdon. The Rev’d Charles Miller would have taken the service but is recovering from illness.

The service was led instead by Rev’d Mary Williamson who said she could tell Janet was well known and loved from the size of the congregation.

The order of service showed pictures of Janet at various stages in her life. There was a lovely picture of Janet and David getting married; another of her rowing in the Lake District, where she had lived during her youth, and often returned for walking tours. On the back cover was a picture of her as Mayor of Abingdon in 1989, and on the front was the face of Janet in her latter years.

The hymns were well known:
To Be a Pilgrim
The Lords my Shepherd
All things bright and beautiful – because of her love of the outdoors
Guide me, O thou great redeemer.

An appreciation of Janet’s life was given by her daughter, Alice Morgan. It told how committed Janet was to family; of her careers, first at Harwell, then teaching; how she loved walking and travelling; and how she became an inspirational local politician: town councillor, Mayor, leader of the Vale district council, and Freeman. She was never defeated in an election. Voters got to know and trust her so well.

The service ended with the organ playing ‘I know that my redeemer liveth‘ from Handel’s Messiah. One had the impression Janet had a strong faith.

Then there was a very long and slow moving queue as people shook hands with family members and shared memories.

Donations were for The Abingdon Bridge (a charity providing counselling and advice for young people in Abingdon that Janet supported from the outset) and Sobell House (a charity providing end of life care and support in Oxfordshire). There is also a just giving page.

Brian Moylan died recently. He worked at MG cars and was very active in the MG car club.

A week ago, Tom Larman, who ran Abingdon Town FC and social club, had a funeral service at Trinity Church.

Near the end of 2016, Alan Bryden died. He was a County Councillor and Town Councillor. You may also recognise him from leading walks round Abingdon.

All three made a big contribution to community life in Abingdon.